My Other "R": Real Sh*t for the Day
In a society that has always been male dominated, men have always sought to marginalize the worth and status of women. Many men treat women as conquests, not people. As a hole- pussy hole, mouth hole, or whatever other holes you down low brothers like to stick your penis in.So, from the beginning of time in this western culture, it was made socially acceptable for men to be hoes (essentially) and unacceptable for women to be. It was made socially acceptable for men to have sex as early as possible, with as many ppl as possible. After all, if you dominated society, wouldn't SEX be of high importance lol. We all like sex and 99% of us partake (some of us more than others lol). In addition, men that do not partake in this behavior are stigmatized, being accused of being gay, soft, a symp, etc etc.
So men lust for breasts, ass, lips, thighs, whatever and blame women for their lack of self-control lol. Talk about not taking responsibility!! As someone who loves having sex, but has been socialized to believe that excessive sex is "unlady-like", I exercise self control DAILY lol. I know this is easier for women, because we are socialized from birth to believe we shouldn't have a lot of sex so it doesn't take as much self-control as it takes for men, who are socialized to believe the opposite. Boo hoo though. Men would accomplish so much more and build more fulfilling relationships if they took the time to look inside themselves and find the strength and courage to 1) take responsibility for their actions and admit their slave state and 2) exercise self control and do away with what you've been socialized to believe is right. (This is just as true for women btw, except we must deal with issues that have socialized us to fit a certain image, fawn over money, depend on men, and keep us in an inferior state essentially, but that's another topic for another time).
This ni**a needs 2 take responsibility!! |
In my anthropology class, my professor was talking about his experience in Belize or Malaysia or maybe some South American country where women walk around topless. He told us how his girlfriend (of that culture) doesn't understand why our culture (American) is obsessed with breasts!!! She didn't understand why American men went ape-shit over the sight of breasts lol. Socialization sweetie. So, to every man who thinks their uncontrollable obsession with breasts, ass, and careless and casual sex is natural, I ask, why aren't men of that culture SOOO sex crazed?
A fuckin men
ReplyDeleteThe real question is why would a man want to change? How do you enlighten someone who find and seeks pleasure in sex by attempting to explain to them the joys and benefits of self control. I believe the bigger problem is the a society that promotes egoism over altruism, i.e. a "me first society" so people no longer truly look for love in relationships, ( A true love would cause one to practicy monogamy) and look for what they can get out of it ( money, sex, etc) and that goes for both men and women
ReplyDeleteWow Marcus your opinion is completely insightful and true....u pose an excellent question at the beginning....I feel as if ppl value short term pleasure over long term fulfillment...Ur right about our society promoting egoism over altruism as well ( I looked those 2 words up lol)...Why is that so many people continue to engage in sex so carelessly though? Socialization? IDK
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